11 Steps to Protect Your Innocent Child from Negative Energy

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In a previous article, I wrote about the very serious difficulties of exposing your priceless and beautiful children to a psychopathic and degraded world. As a psychic clairvoyant, I’m going to tell you how you can protect your child’s innocent energy field. This is useful spiritual information for anyone who has a small child in their charge. Useful, for certain…but for some of you, the juxtaposition of spiritual fact against the 3-D material reality of the world we live in will seem old-fashioned, perhaps disturbingly defiant and even impractical.

A spiritual lifestyle, needed to help your child stay energetically safe, is becoming a somewhat rebellious lifestyle because it challenges the consensus reality and many other blanket assumptions of our society. While religious fundamentalism is on the increase and society continues to unravel along with that, the awareness of spiritual truth and the way out of our mess is becoming more on the fringe. So, any determination to help a child stay energetically safe and achieve his or her life’s potential is going to require that the parent or guardian take a much deeper look at where society (and the consensus belief system) is taking our children. A spiritual lifestyle is not complicated, unlike the highly convenient but very complicated society that enslaves people to its increasingly stressful, draconian demands.

An Overview of the Soul-Sick Territory that Surrounds You and the Children You Love

More adults and children are manifesting the byproducts of stress caused by an overcomplicated and spiritually disconnected social order. We are sick in our Souls. It’s even harder on kids, whose inborn innocence comes under attack at very early ages, and who are driven forward without having first been taught to know themselves or their connection to Spirit. And driven they are: driven to achieve, driven to mature, driven to compete…on and on it goes. There is even talk of placing children in outside education as early as two years of age, which is nothing but wresting kids away from early family influence: in truth, education has nothing to do with it. This is about indoctrination. It’s about the shaping of future adults who will be molded into conformity and unquestioning compliance, beginning not long after infancy. It’s about the cold, calculating State making itself a child’s primary care-giver and their chief authority once they become adults.

Society, whether you are dealing with government, schools, or any number of other institutions, expects people to conform without questioning–and children are most certainly expected to conform. It’s now frequent for children to pressure their parents to conform to social norms as well, having been taught in school that personal adult behaviors such as tobacco use are “very bad” or that not recycling the garbage is “bad” or that global warming is caused by Dad mowing the lawn. So, what’s wrong with that, you wonder?

A lot. While on the surface this may appear to have good intention on the part of the system that shapes your children, it’s a millimeter deep. Not only are many of the suppositions questionable when viewed from an informed point of view, look a little further under the surface of these intentions and you will see that education is an important component of the larger social system that is structured to control people’s lives, beginning very early in life. Those in power, who implement these strategies, have deemed that it’s appropriate for children to lecture their parents regarding their lifestyles knowing full well that this will ultimately undermine parental authority and children’s respect. In point of fact, children are viewed by social planners as living clay, they are considered as property of the “global village” and they are taught only what is necessary to service the social machine. (Some adults who are aware of what’s happening call this the “dumbing down” of kids; an accurate description even if the phrase is, ironically, poor English.)

Consequently, our children are reprimanded and labeled as problematic when they question authority or think outside the box. They are not given permission to disagree with the memes…the prevalent, conformist ideas that the system wants people to adopt as fact. Thanks in part to the DSM IV (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, the Holy Writ of the psychiatric industry) children (and adults) who question authority or who are argumentative and free-thinking, could have “oppositional defiant disorder” or “ODD”.  In the vein of everything being upside down in the world, now mainstream therapeutics can label a free-thinking child as having a mental illness, or label a free-thinking adult a “conspiracy nut”–as in “nutty”, delusional, and mentally ill.

For those who are waking up to the nightmare the world has become, it’s a bitter irony that the same system which claims to care about children ignores a plethora of authentic issues that if addressed, would give children the opportunities in life they most certainly deserve. We live in a society that gives lip service to the welfare of children, but that acts in countless ways that damage children very much. –Often irreparably.

Building a Beautiful Future from a Wrecked Social Order

Many parents, particularly very young parents, have also been shaped by the same society that is now molding their children, and these parents don’t have any idea of the many ways their children’s physical, psychological and spiritual welfare is being damaged. For one example, (and there are many) most children today have cell phones, as do their parents, despite the fact that there is abundant research which shows that radiation exposure from cell phones causes brain cancer, and that children are especially vulnerable to this. –Not to mention the harmful spiritual effects on the human aura caused by constant electromagnetic radiation! So, then: why do we give our kids cellular phones? Because the social current has carried us away. We go lurching along a raging river of social conformity and hypnotic consumption, believing it will be okay even when evidence is contrary. And we do these harmful things because we surrender to what is advertised…and because “everybody else is doing it.”

To have a joyful and productive life, to have good spiritual energy and good physical/mental health, we have to stop “going along to get along.” If you want what’s good for you, stop following what everybody else is doing. And teach your kids the same. The number one rule for protecting your child’s spiritual energy is to teach them individuality and to back away from situations and circumstances that are harmful, even if their peers and society-at-large choose to be ignorant and oblivious. There is NO “safety in numbers”, but safety in standing apart from the crowd when it is necessary to do so.

In a more perfect world, adopting a healthy and spiritual lifestyle would happen with greater ease, but today it’s increasingly difficult. There is a precipitous slide happening in economic equality, which imposes limits on a child’s economic and career potential as well as their physical health. There are many families comprised of kids from one mother and several different fathers, which can influence a child’s psychological make-up. And there are millions of parents who are still psychologically children themselves, because they did not have a chance to mature before having babies. Children who are born to under-developed parents experience limitations in their emotional, psychological, and spiritual development. This gives rise to the intergenerational stunting of human potential, a primary cause of the certain devolution of the human condition happening now before our eyes.

So what are we to do? How do we really help the children of our world??

Love Has Everything to Do With It

In all of these paragraphs, there has been no mention of love. That’s because when we examine what society thinks about kids, the word “love” just isn’t in the mix. Pay attention to what’s said about children’s welfare, and you’ll see that the so-called “authorities” over children don’t talk about love. They would be uncomfortable or embarrassed …how “unprofessional”…and yet, love is the number one need of every child on the planet. Ask yourself this: does a child receive love from those around them who are afraid to talk about it? Can someone who is uncomfortable with the word, really understand love and give it?

Why have we become so uncomfortable with the word “love”? Why have we, as a society, become so clinical and detached from love, from nature, and from Spirit? How did we get to our present state of looking at children as a statistic, as a test score, as a badge of honor for someone who smugly takes credit for the way they turned out–or conversely, as a burden or a social problem? How did we, as adults, manage to lose our way so badly, that society’s children have almost no hope of ever having the kind of life we say we want for them?

We are lost because we have allowed ourselves to be swept away by a deeply dysfunctional system, filled with materialism, disrespect, fear, injustice, hypocrisy, corruption, selfishness, deceit, vulgarity, arrogance, violence, an infinity of superficialities, and unquestioning conformity. We no longer honor the sanctity of all life, we no longer respect the chain of life, including respect for the aged, and we no longer understand the nature of Spirit and our spiritual connection to one another. We have fallen for every substitute and have tossed away what is real. We got religion and we left our Souls on the side of the road.

The Energy of Life and the Sanctity of the Child

Most people don’t know where life comes from. Some think it’s simply a process of cell division, or that they have something called a Soul because the preacher told them so, (without knowing what a Soul really is, mind you) but in any event…most people just know they’re here. That’s about it!

No wonder we’ve gotten ourselves in a mess.

When a woman gives birth to a child, she calls that baby, “My child.” Everybody knows that, of course, but what everybody doesn’t know is that the spiritual energy that gave rise to the creation of that baby’s body belongs to no one. It is a free-will agent, and it chose its parents for multiple metaphysical and biological reasons. Children, in a sane world, would be deeply respected for the unique Spiritual Beings that they are. They have their own mission and purpose for being here. And that mission is not for the purpose of being a parental prize…or a drone for the political state.

Our children do not belong to us. They are not our property. They do not belong to society. They belong to LIFE because they ARE life. They are a trust. They are a charge. They are an opportunity for a parent’s personal growth. They are hard work and an unmatched responsibility. We should know that they may, or may not, be connected to us spiritually: they may seem disconnected from us all our lives. Children may choose to become what we don’t like or approve of. Conversely, they can grow into people we are proud of and still not be good to their parents somewhere down the road. The bottom line is that when we have a child, we roll the dice.

To be worthy of a child is to know the sanctity of that child’s individual purpose. To support the sanctity of a child’s life is to understand that all children, like you, are Souls with a body. They are made of an eternal Light; of energy, frequency, and Consciousness that is a deep-seated part of the Divine. To know this, is to be reverent for the life that stands before you, whether or not you understand who or what they will become.

Your duty is to help them the best you can and from the beginning of their lives, they need simple demonstrations of love and spiritual guidance. They need to be taught to be themselves and allowed to express their innate gifts, without being molded by social norms.Society does not know what’s best for your child: you were given the privilege of that special insight, as a parent.You just have to tap into it…and trust it.

Is Your Child’s Aura Healthy?

At birth, a fully mature spirit emerges into the world, housed in an infant body. The spiritual body itself has an electromagnetic force field, otherwise called an aura. A child’s aura is a living portrait of its Soul, constructed of pure and incredibly beautiful Light. It is the energy of the Eternal Being of the infant and holds all memory of its existence, in this life, in other lifetimes, and from the initial point of Creation when that child’s spirit first emerged from the Source of All Life.

In very young children, the predominant colors of the aura speak of the child’s spiritual and personal mission in this lifetime—their purpose for birth on this planet. Divine guardians are very close to small children, very near their auric force field.  We are all born with clean auras and a close connection to Divine Source, but as a child matures, traumas begin to be reflected in the originally-pure aura. A serious bump on the head, fighting and screaming of family members, very loud discordant music, a painful case of constipation…all of these things cause a temporary disruption in the energy field. This will alter the colors for a bit. The change in color is a reflection of a drop in the frequency of the auric vibration (the rate at which light oscillates) and this drop in frequency will lower auric defenses to a greater or lesser degree. Lessened auric defenses mean that harmful energies can enter a person’s aura and cause psychic, emotional or physical imbalance, much like bacteria and viruses attack the physical cells when an immune system is compromised, thereby causing a physical infection.

Damage to the aura is cumulative, unless corrections are made along the way. This manifests in physicality, for instance, as a gradual deterioration of a child’s “psychological profile” or a child’s physical health.

Negative energy that gets rooted in a child’s aura can cause symptoms such as panic attacks, phobias, depression, withdrawal, violent behavior, unmanageable behavior that stands apart from normal developmental rebellion, hyperactivity, and a multitude of other problems, including physical symptoms. If a child’s problems cannot be diagnosed, chances are there is an energetic issue–and even diagnosed conditions often have a hidden energetic cause.

Eleven Steps You Can Take to Protect Your Child’s Energy Field

You are here because you want to know how to protect a child from the hazards of the world and all the negative energy associated with it. Now, the reason I’ve written so much about social conditioning before we get to the heart of this article is because you must understand what opposes you. You must be willing to go against the current of prevalent forces, if you want to spiritually help a child. For additional information about protecting a spiritual energy field, please  be sure to read my articles, here, hereherehereherehere, and here.

1. Limit your child’s exposure to mass media. Television programs, movies, popular music (be especially mindful that so-called “rap” is very destructive to the energy fields of all things), and Internet are all geared to shape young minds into the negative amalgam of clinical psychopathy (cold, heartless, deceitful, narcissistic, and harmful behavior) that society today is largely comprised of.

2. Expose your child to nature on a daily basis. Get them out of their rooms, out of the house and into constructive outside activities. Take them on nature walks. Take them on picnics and other secluded outings. Teach them how to grow plants, care for animals, and be at home in an outdoor environment. Have them play outside…without cell phones in their pockets!! If you live in a city apartment, fill your rooms and patios with plants and living things, and take your children into nature every chance you get.

3. Don’t allow your children to be involved in adult drama. Don’t carry on about your problems in front of your kids. Don’t say negative things about other people. Don’t involve them in your relationship problems. Don’t treat them like adults because they are not!

4.  Don’t get drunk or take mind-altering drugs around your children! These actions can severely damage your own energy field and will make your children very susceptible to negative energies when they are around you. If you have a problem with substance abuse, get help and make some changes. If you don’t do it for yourself, do it for your kids.

5.  Be sexually responsible. This is a topic that is difficult to present, particularly given the open and promiscuous climate of our time and the astonishing sexual hang-ups of our society. There is way too much repressed guilt about sexuality and I don’t want to add to that. At the same time, you deserve to know the facts. Also, what I’m going to tell you is not about religious judgment, which is a negative energy in itself. What people are never told, is that there are negative spiritual forces that act upon human lives and that can infiltrate the auras of people who have casual sex, without love. Sexual energy is sacred, but it’s not treated that way in our society. When we defile the sacred, we open ourselves to soul sickness and negative energy. Because you and your children are energetically linked, irresponsible sexual conduct exposes your child to a plethora of unhealthy energies. No matter what the world tells you, casual sex is not good for your Spirit and this will affect your children.

6.  Please don’t expose children to filthy language. There is very powerful energy in the sounds of words. Ugly language has terrible, dark energy. Learn to say “Shoot!” instead of “Sh-t!” and “Froggle!” instead of “F–k!” Your own energy field will be much cleaner, and you will protect your children from the emanations of darkness that you are sure to emit when you use angry, demeaning, or destructive language.

7.  Tell the truth, teach the truth, and demand the truthBe the truth. This is so fundamental it stands alone. Where there is truth, there is Light. Where there is deception and dishonesty, there is darkness. Your kids will follow what you do: so, are you honest and truthful?

8. Live generously and teach your children the same. A generous, unselfish heart is a beautiful sight to the clairvoyant eye. Surround your children with an environment of mutual cooperation, unselfish behavior, and a concern for other life: people, animals, plants, and the earth itself. Teach them to be considerate, respectful, giving, and unselfish. Your example leads the way.

9.  Choose carefully the people you allow to have access to your children. Don’t ever leave your kids with someone you don’t know very well, and do not leave them alone in the presence of people who are deeply negative.

10. Teach your child energetic protection. From a very early age, teach your child to see the warm, happy, and loving Sun in their minds, sending dancing sunbeams down all around them. Have them do this before they sleep, before school or at the start of their day. Have them make this picture in their minds when they are sad, afraid, or troubled. Have them make a big sunny space all around them, as far as their little arms can reach, and tell them this is a special place that only holy beings and good people can come into. Do this with them, and by the time they are in school, they will have a powerful defense against negative energy, all the time. Tell them they have your permission to avoid people that make them feel uncomfortable.

11. Love, love, love!!! This is the first rule and the last rule for positive energy. It trumps all the others. Show your children lots of love and show them how to love in return. Be supportive, never abusive. Never treat them harshly. Never show disrespect. Some parents treat their kids like they treat a dog that gets in the way, ripping apart not just the psyche of their child, but the spiritual aura as well .No matter how stressed or upset you get, one glance at your child should remind you of the one thing that is really important in this world: love.

No parent is perfect because no human being is perfect. Falling short of a code of conduct is going to happen, but at least you can have a code and do your best to live by it. Being a parent can make you a much better person, which is an important objective of those pure spirits that offer to inhabit bodies and come to be with you in this lifetime.

Children are about love. See that. Look softly and long into their little child eyes. They need you to love them back. They need you to help them find their way safely through this dark world…while they help you find your way back to the Divine.

When you need guidance about protecting your child’s energy, give me a call. I will take a clairvoyant look and give specific recommendations that can help. It’s a privilege to help you.

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  1. Bianca


    Hi Diana,
    I have a 2 months old baby and I lived in the same place for longer than a yeah. My apartament is on top of a resaturant, on the rooftop so I have no neighbours. For the past 2 weeks lots of bad things happened such as the smoke alarm starting multiple times in the middle of the night, finding a cloud of smoke in the hall from nowhere, door and windows shaking brutally when I pray and the worSt my baby can’t stop crying as soon as it gets dark. It’s like I feel something is hiding in the house waiting for the dark to take action. My baby screams really high pitched and stares at something that I can’t see, I try to move him to another room but it’s the same, I had to take him out of the house for him to calm down. As soon as we left he fall asleep. When we came back it happened again. I don’t know what to do… me and my boyfriend feel threatened and scared for baby. We also have bad nightmares about a dark shadow dreseed in a black cape with red eyes…. help?

    • Diana


      I’m sorry for the fright you are experiencing, Bianca. This is a complex situation that requires a session with me, however, there are things you can do right now to help you out. Read about cleansing energies through smudging here. Your fearful states of mind can only make matters worse, so please read this article about overcoming fear and begin at once to build good energy and spiritual power. You also need to know, despite the fact that this seems to be confined to the building, that your personal life and things going on with you are not separate from what’s happening, so examine yourself and your life honestly. Read this, another article about fear, , and this about creating good energy and this about building a spiritual connection to the Divine and this about what your thoughts can create and this about how to focus on things that change your energy field. Finally, give your aura a good scrub. If you will do these things and make these changes sincerely and with effort, this problem will be solved. This is your help, my dear, I can only hope that you make use of it. If, after doing these things and you still think you need more help, please order a session with me. Love to you and your child.

  2. Jenna


    My sons have been seeing dark shadows move throughout our home for several years now.
    I have noticed them within the last year. We have doors unexpectedly open and cold drafts and smells at different times during the day or night. My husband is experiencing it too. We feel the darkness around us more and more. It causes nose bleeds and sudden moments of feeling extreme heat. My husband started getting scratches in the form of 3 lines, like claw marks on various spots on his body. I have been scratched only once. We clear our home regularly with sage and palo santo, incense, oils and intentions. We have a blended family and my kids go to their father half the time and his kids go to their mother half the time. The kids all come home with dark entities on them. We have darkness surrounding us constantly. I don’t know what else to do to protect my family.

    • Diana


      I’m sorry, Jenna, for the suffering you’ve experienced.

      You’re asking a lot from me, to expect adequate assistance in a comment forum, and in your own interests I encourage you to schedule an appointment with me where your important needs can be thoroughly and privately attended to. Effective measures to problem-solve take time, expanded understanding, personal change, and an unwavering willingness to heal. Superficial or quick solutions are okay if you need to stop a cold draft from coming under the door, but in matters of such scope and magnitude require more thought, understanding, and effort to fix what needs fixing. An accurate assessment here is impossible.

      Having said that, I wonder how you know that your children come home “with dark entities on them”? This is quite an affirmative statement on your part and there is a lot of history and belief behind it that could very well be a source of the disturbance. If you are certain of this, it would seem that you and your family do not practice spiritual protection, or that you do not do so in an effective way. Intentions, by themselves, can be weak, mediocre, or strong…or truly powerful. Unless they are strong — and better yet, powerful — they have little effect.

      Also, to be strong or even powerful, your protection intentions need a good understanding of your spiritual rights to back them up. –What do you really believe? That is the question! Do you believe that darkness is stronger than you are? Often, people don’t really believe that goodness is more powerful than evil, that Light is stronger than darkness. They may say it is so, but their situation reveals the opposite. There is a doubt within them that they have any personal spiritual power, often because they have low self-esteem and don’t trust a personal connection to the Divine. So you see, you have to look within. Examine yourself and see your need for self-love, for inner strength that comes from your own goodness, and the sense that it is your Divine right to experience unmolested spiritual space… before your intentions can build a protective barrier. That’s just for starters, as there is a lot at play here, not all of it is about dark entities.

      I’m glad you smudge your house! Very good. It is helping some (it could be worse without it) and keep on doing it. Read here about the sacred procedure to conduct the ceremony so you can strengthen the cleansing of your household. Follow the instructions carefully. And be sure you smudge each other in the same way. Please be advised, however, that practically all incense and most oils will not have a cleansing effect and in fact, may attract undesirable energies. It is my recommendation that you do not use incense or oils for serious energetic disturbance, and although this will shock some readers who will take issue, the fact remains that not all that is purported to cleanse or protect does that. (These days, people make money by marketing products and making claims which are passed on as truth until people take it to be fact.) Out of all the plants and essences in North America, nothing is as effective for spiritual cleansing as sage smudge. There are imitations… but no substitute.

      It’s time to examine your family’s conversations. Are they positive? –About each other and the world at large? Look at what is viewed on the television. What kind of “music” the kids listen to. How do you treat each other? What is your religious background/belief? Is anyone under treatment for, or have a history of, a psychiatric disorder? Are drugs or alcohol used? What kind of associations do you have? What kinds of material are you reading? Do you have a spiritual practice in this family? –And so on.

      There is always something in our life that needs to be set right when intrusive energy is at work. There is something within us that needs healing, or change, or help. There is a belief that is not serving us, a pattern that is out-of-whack, a spiritual need that is wanting inside of us.

      The physical manifestations you describe, assuming they are caused by a paranormal influence, would be a form of psychokinetic manifestation; often experienced in the vicinity of children at puberty and/or adolescence. This is just another topic too involved for a comment forum, but again, I ask you to examine how your children are doing in their development. Clearly, certain dynamics of this split-three-family-combo need healing: there is forgiveness required, resentments to be cleared up, boundaries to be set, things to be worked out. Teach your children how to deal with emotion in a healthy way; read here, and follow the links at the end of the article to read all three parts.

      Please read throughout this website for more information to help you, specifically here, here, and here, with more to discover as you read through the pages.

      Finally, you simply have to know this: no evil, no darkness, no paranormal or energetic force is more powerful that the Divinity you hold within your own heart. You, at the very center of your Being, are perfectly connected to the Divine presence that gave you life. Just because you don’t know this …yet…does not mean that “it ain’t so”, it just means you are –through these difficult experiences– being guided to discover the wonderful truths about life you have yet to discover. Focus on what is beautiful, true, good, loving, and right about life. Stand in that. The darkness will shrivel, because where Light is, darkness cannot abide.

      I sincerely hope this has helped. All blessings and Divine outpourings be upon you.

  3. R.


    I carry the burden of co parenting with a covertly deceptive and evil woman. i have been used as her doormat one too many times. The court believed her lies and labeled me as a controlling, abusive man. That couldnt be further from the truth. This happened when she came back into my son’s life after abandoning us for 3 yrs when he was only 2. Prior to leaving she was not fond of motherhood and our son felt the same toward her, rejecting her with an outstretched arm when i got home everyday as he greeted me. I knew he wasnt oblivious to her ways, he saw it in the lack of care from her and her obsession with herself and her so-called problems. When she returned and convinced the court I kept her away, i was shocked. Our son has not been the same wonderful boy since becoming a zombie to video games, thanks to her. He doesn’t feel much toward her but has an older brother there to game with and that’s all they do there. She tells him I was the babysitter and the other boy backs thst up (baby sitting for 3 yrs???). Anyway, i could go on but the concern for my son combined with my distaste for her is nearly all consuming. Its eating me alive nearly which is harmful to my health, my relationship with my son is in jeopardy because I’m stressed wondering what will happen next thats totally wrong and unfair, it’s hard to keep from wanting to tell him things she’s done to keep him aware and informed of her tactics. I don’t know how to protect him when the court won’t because theres no law against being a bad person. In fact they think I am bad because the court is lazy and biased, stupidly favoring her for reasons unbeknowngst to me. My attorney(s) seemed to go right along with her script. It was unreal. Counselling has helped slightly with my stress but i want protection from her for my son and myself. Any advice? Thank you.

    • Diana


      I have omitted your name, so “R”…you have my heart-felt empathy. Fathers often face these situations because the system is indeed improperly biased toward mothers. I am concerned that the failure of justice and legal imbalance will blacken your heart, so friend, come to accept that: 1. The legal system does not provide justice. It provides judgments, right or wrong. 2. There are things in life you cannot control and despite your utterly best efforts, you cannot change or rightly influence. 3. Your son has a Divine Soul that knew what life lessons he could handle before he was born. It is a fact that at this time, this is your son’s path, and your part in his life is to offer all support, love, and decent teaching that you have to give. If you do your part, it is likely the outcome will be favorable in your son’s life. That’s ALL you can do… unless and until circumstances change. This is not the life you want for him, but it’s the life he has. Help him to make the very best of whatever path he has to walk. 4. Do NOT, please do not put your child in the middle or otherwise create psychological conflict by criticizing his mother!! You would be compounding all the errors you find with her mothering many times over! You must bite your tongue off first. 5. Release this pain and anger to the Divine/Higher Power. Life on earth is not fair! It isn’t. Your job is to make the most of what you have, where you are, and when you are. And know this: things change. Hold the love of your son in your heart and cradle this in dignity and balanced masculinity. Do no harm. Hold fast. Keep alive the expectation of a better outcome. Then you’ll be living as a good father should, as a good man can, and this is by far the greatest gift and teaching your son will ever have. I know you can do this: Peace, comfort, and healing be upon you and your child.

  4. not named.


    i have a very influential energy field. i used to be very happy and so the people around me feel happy all the time around me. but nowadays. since some traumatic experience. i have been feeling sleepy all the time. and people who get near me feel sleepy too. this is so weird. maybe can you help?

    • Diana


      Valen, read all the rest of this website. There are many ways to build up your energy and energetically heal.

      Best to you and thank you for commenting.

  5. Vandana


    Hi there …. I am a mother of two kids … Not getting enough quality time with my husband . Does this sexual tension between us …( Not verbal) .. effect my kids …

    • Diana


      We cannot always protect our children from our own issues, and when it comes to marital dynamics, it takes both partners to resolve issues. You may wish to consider changing your point of concern: put your marriage first and fix what needs fixing. Not having enough time for personal priority is an increasing problem in today’s world but you do have choices, whether you recognize this or not. You can make the time for togetherness, and for the sake of your marriage–whatever other sacrifices must be made–why would you not choose to do this? Protection of your marriage is a responsible action to take on behalf of your children, of course, not to mention you and your husband. May you see the truth, and act on it, regardless of time demands.

  6. Victoria


    Hello Diana,

    I found this article very helpful and I will do my best t o utilize this outline for practices in guiding my child throughout his life. I found this page in an attempt t o find ways to protect my son from negative energy I felt coming from my sister. She would always touch my belly when I was pregnant until I sharply told her not to one day and even now that my son is an infant I do not like him around her. she wears the guise of a deeply spiritual person but once she held my son while I was getting my hair d one as she complained about her own trauma. I quickly removed my son from her and sent him forgiving loving and peaceful vibes. I don’t think she does it intentionally but neither do I trust her intentions. this is my sister we are talking about. I love her and appreciate all the times she has helped me she is very kind but I am thinking about not being in her presence so much until she truly is healed and truly comes to terms with her own spiritual hang ups. is there a way I can express my love and at the same time distance myself especially since she longs to spend time with my little one

    • Diana


      Victoria, your comment (as well as other comments on this site) prompts me to write yet another article about negative energy as my time will permit, to help you and others achieve a deeper insight into what constitutes threatening negative energy. While most people are often indifferent or unaware about the negative energy that they allow into their lives, there are also people who are hypervigilant and hyperreactive about negative energy, simply because they don’t grasp the deeper dynamics at play. The Western mindset is wired to view reality at face value, to see things as completely dualistic, to picture reality in “black-and-white” and to altogether miss the depth, the color, and the many shades of gray (not to mention the perspective) of what reality really IS. Instead, we see something as “good or bad” while we likewise look for simplistic, black-and-white reasoning about why we feel the way we do. The above article is a guideline, not a rulebook and thus, there will be situations that require one to make a deeper, more comprehensive assessment of what is really going on.

      From the content of your comment it is not clear if your sister has a background or a psychological profile of being untrustworthy with children. You do not indicate if she is an addict, or under psychiatric treatment, or if she is a felon, or perhaps unstable in some other way. You say she wanted to touch your pregnant belly and that while holding him she talked of her own trauma. If that is the extent of your grievance, then I ask you: is your sister more human than you? Is being human something you think of as negative, because it appears from your comment that your sister is trying to connect to hope and to purity and to love. These are all things that humans do.

      You write that you feel negative energy from your sister–and while it may indeed be true that she has some issues in her life to work out–so do other humans, including you. We all emit negative energy from time to time. Life on earth is not a paradise. You cannot protect your child from every negative wave, every negative situation, every hurtful thing. You need to examine yourself for overprotective tendencies and then give yourself the time and inner spiritual work to bring your mothering instincts into balance. It’s kind of like that old adage about taking medicine: “If a teaspoon of this stuff is good, then a few tablespoons is even better!” You don’t want to overdose a child with protective intentions, as the long-term effects will be truly damaging to his psyche and his life.

      Lastly, you say that your sister has been kind to you, has hang ups, that she does not do these things intentionally but that you also do not trust her intentions. While you consider this to be a negative energy issue (and I don’t have enough information to determine any of that) be certain that you also take into account the underlying relationship with your sister over a lifetime, your own judgments and fears, any competition, mistrust and jealousy from your shared childhood, because these factors are far more likely to be the wellspring of your uneasy feelings.

      The bottom line: not every uneasy, “negative” feeling that we have is coming from someone else’s (or something else’s)negative energy. We often call something “negative energy” when the source is a different kind of unease…no less negative, perhaps…but requiring a more thoughtful approach to healing than banishment and avoidance. In your case–as with so many others–it’s probably time to dig deep inside for the hidden truths that elude you, and start today to build a positive, confident outlook on a negative, damaged world. –Something that you will want to teach your son, because he will need his mother to have embodied the very courage and optimism that he will need to acquire as he grows and develops into manhood.
      All blessings to you and your family, Victoria.

  7. Kimberly M


    Hi Diana, I’d like to stay by saying I loved this article and agree with everything you’ve said. But I am a stay at home mom, and I have a two year old son, he’s an only child. He is a very spirited young man and very very bright for his age. But has been thru allot in a short period of time. I also have the gift of sight when it comes to spirits, and other things. I live in a very old 18th century House and have always felt spirits among us, they are kind, beautiful spirits, iv lived here mi whole life, mi mom and her siblings also raised here. I began raising my son here after my mom moved out just as I was And I have never felt a bad spirit here ever, until a few nights ago, mi son woke up screaming at 3AM ( EVERY NIGHT FOR A MONTH AT THE SAME TIME) I went into his room, and went to pick him up out of his crib to comfort him, I reached in and touched him, and it was like there was a weight on him. I could not pick him up he was screaming an kicking his feet but could not lift his head or arms and I couldn’t pull him out, I ran to get his dad ( I felt scared and afraid) his dad would not wake. And mi son screamed mommy! After that all that fear left and was replaced with parental protection and I went in his room and tried again, something tried to push me away, and I almost gave back into the fear, and all of a sudden I felt this warm feeling of love touch my back and in mi head, these words echoed “you have more power than the “ugly” you have love on your side” so I said let go of my son now! You cannot have him!! And I reached in as I was saying this and this smell washed over me and left and we fell to the floor and I rapped mi arms around him and rocked him and repeated over and over and over until he was calm, mommy loves you baby you are safe you are loved you are protected I will not let no harm come to you. And the room felt good again and I looked up and I seen a blue faded light and then it was gone. It took every fiber inside me not to break down… Is it possible that the love I felt touch me “at the moment I pulled my son into my arms” was his Guardian or mine helping me against the evil that was holding mi son down? Or a spirit of a loved one? There’s been allot of unusual deaths in mi family the past couple months and everything I read in ur article I live by. Mi house had been cleansed inside and out. But I’m worried now, that something might come back after my son and I feel like I got lucky with the whole deal the other day, but also the feeling could just be the mother in me, wanting to be ready to fight if it happens again, any suggestions on anything else I can do to protect him?

  8. Reader


    First I don’t believe in evil sprite or ghost ! But my son always tell me that he saw something horrible in his room. He told me that he saw a ghost. I always tell him that there is no ghost at all !! But nowadays he is making me worried. So, do you have any suggestions for my son ??

    • Diana


      What you believe is irrelevant, when it comes to whether ghosts are real, or not. Have you ever wondered to yourself, “What if what I believe is not the truth?”…but then, to ask those kinds of questions, one has to have a desire within them to improve their lives with an increase in knowledge and wisdom. Based on your email address and other personal information which has been edited out, I have this response for you: live your life by decent precepts and teach your child to do the same, by your own example.

  9. Shana


    Look i dont know if i should do this because ive had bad experiences with my mother who is dead but studied wicca or whatever that is.. My own curious impulses got me in trouble before as well for example, i was filmed in new york city as a lady did her best to spiritually heal me from my past and the pain i had been through. They have opportunities to get in all kinds of mischief out there and my bad decision let something in that hurt the weakest person in recovery instead of me. So this might be a bad idea but like i said my mother is dead and im a first time mom. My pregnancy was awful and my life has been a broken road. I never wanted kids because of the pain ive felt but my son came and i changed as much as i could for him and continue changing as i can. My son see’s things its not just my imagination because it scares him and hes such a good baby.. Whatever this is brings him into a hysterical fit of fear and i have no problem paying the money for your services im just terrified of bringing more bad into my situation and my knowledge isnt extreme in these areas but i know some things because of my mother. Other things i just know because my heart always told me or i just know and i cant explain why. Maybe im crazy. but i need help.

    • Diana


      Shana, bless your heart. You have to be the one to allow some peace into your life, as well as seek counseling from a qualified professional to help you heal from the great grief and that you carry. It’s time to feel good about yourself! –And there are people who can help you do this. That doesn’t mean anyone can do it for you, but they can support you and give you feedback that will help clear the clutter from your mind. You have to practice the “self-love” thing, one day at a time. As for your child, positive, happy, and fearless energy within you is the best way to help him…you help him by helping yourself! 🙂 Don’t focus so much on “bad” energy and start to see all the beautiful energy in life. Your son was born with a brigade of Guardian Spirits who watch over him, and you have them as well. Begin a simple daily spiritual practice. Read the other articles here on this website.

      Thank you for reaching out. If you would still like a session with me, you can make your selection on the right hand side of the page. May you begin to pull peace and comfort into your heart.

  10. Shelley


    Hi there,
    I have a son that is scared all the time because he sees spirits. He has since he was little. He had a man at the end of his bed for almost a year and we had to get a lady to clear the house. But now he can’t get it out of his mind. We have done everything on the list. He is to the point where he figures what is the point, I give up. He says why would God let that happen to me? I asked Angels etc to help and no one did. I am trying to get him out of this cycle but it is so hard. Any suggestions? He is 12.

  11. Reply

    Hi Diana
    It is with great sadness that I read your article. I knew and applied most of the above and my children shone and there was no problem until they encountered the Australian education system. My eldest daughter has not survived and she was the one that had the most light. Unfortunately, it drew the attention of ignorant people who thought she was a privilege child and because this education system believed in the group mentality – the group gradually destroyed her by confusing her to the point of what I fear is no return. I believe I am now being exposed to this deluded group by being pushed below the poverty line and forced to live wondering, at times, if I have enough to eat. All this has been done because of the belief that nobody is any better than anybody else. If you exhibit a glow and do not follow the group you will be deprived. I wish I lived near someone like you where I could flourish but my reality is I have been forced to live on charity and without a meaningful income that, I believe, is an attempt to break me down so I will join in their way of thinking. I believe I will not give in to this and I am prepared to die before I conform!! They got my daughter but I am not for sale because I have age and wisdom on my side which brings to mind this old saying: ALL THAT IS NECESSARY FOR THE TRIUMPH OF EVIL IS THAT GOOD MEN DO NOTHING!

    • Diana


      Yes, life can be like that: we can be ostracized and oppressed when we don’t “go along to get along”. It’s a very good thing you see what’s going on…that’s a point of power for you. NOW, the next step is to overcome and thrive, not only survive. Sometimes we are doing pretty darn good to just survive, but know this: by keeping positive, staying near your spiritual core through a daily spiritual practice, demonstrating kindness and helpfulness, not allowing yourself to feel bitter (Life is what it is, Margaret. The only thing we have any real power to change is ourselves.) and with consistent positive approach incredible opportunities will sooner or later open up to you. When you take care of your own heart and stay positive and spiritually connected, you are a good woman doing everything to triumph over evil. I appreciate you very much, and I thank you for living a life of integrity. Be joyful for the golden person that you are, and let peace have power in your heart. All blessings and recovery be yours; I know it will.

  12. Jennifer


    Hello, I am a single mom of a 13 year old boy. I did not awaken to spirituality until a year or so after my son was born. Before I had him, I lived a happy but shallow, self involved life with no real depth of feeling or knowledge of spirituality. Apparently, some childhood events traumatized me enough to cause blockage in my memories. Around age 32, when my son was around 2 years old, I, apparently, reached a point of personal maturity that allowed my mind to suddenly open. Memories came flooding back and after much thinking and reasoning, I was able to put together the basics of what had occured and finally reconnect with my whole self, my real personality, gifts and knowledge. I now feel very spiritually enlightened and aware but it took several years of working through all of the new thoughts, feelings and realizations to reach this stage. My son has and always will be the single most important person in my life and I always want to do what’s best for him and his happiness and future. I feel that when I first became enlightened and aware of my full self, as happy as I was, when I told my closest friend, my sister, about it all, for some reason, she was not happy for me. She started pulling away from me and eventually turned on me all together. For reasons I’ve never understood because she would not tell me why, she disowned me as her sister and treated me with hatred. After that my life became dark and confusing. My son became very difficult and seemed to form a deep dislike for me. I had financial troubles like never before and I found myself alone, confused, ill and depressed. My son seemed to abandon his true self and started acting “fake” and different. It has been a very long, difficult road but I stayed firm in my spiritual beliefs and knowledge and have always found comfort and answers therein. I now feel that my sister directed very negative, destructive thoughts and energy toward me back then which directly affected me AND my son. My spiritual beliefs have brought me through and I am ok but my son, in my opinion, is not. I believe those old negative thoughts took form in him and have negatively affected his direction in life. I know that my son, deep down, is a beautiful, generous, loving individual in his true self but, after all the years of being misdirected by a very negative, shallow, selfish thought form, he has no belief or knowledge of his true self. Today my son has become a very lazy, shallow, negative, unkind teenager with anger issues and problems with focus and dealing with reality. As his mother, and as a person who KNOWS who he was and how he was, I know that this is not the real him. I want to help him realize that he has beauty and light inside and that his real self was abandoned by him due to the influence of a hateful, negative energy thought form thrust upon us long ago. I know he can find his happiness again. If he can connect to his inner, true self again, he can get back on his original path and find his way home. I feel that his path to happiness has to start with the destruction of the negative thought form that has taken over and which is now in charge of his outlook, attitude and direction. This year has been extremely rough on us as he has taken big steps toward destroying his future. His grades, his friendships and family relations are all strained and struggling for survival. I think I can get him to work with me a little on combating the negative thought form but he won’t go with it for long, so I would want to be as direct and focused as possible without making too many mistakes that might cause him to lose interest and walk away from my attempts to help him. I’m afraid of losing to the strength of the thought form and of losing my son in the process. I KNOW that at this stage it’s not too late yet, I can still see him in his eyes but he’s fading. Please, please help me. Can you please help me bring my beautiful, radiant son back home? I feel the solution lies in the sunlight somehow. There is something about the sun that connects to him and has brought him back briefly in the past. What can I do to help him? I’ll do anything. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading this and for being there. I’m so very happy to have found you and I feel you are someone who will understand my situation and have the knowledge and kindness to offer some possible solution. Thank you again. God bless.

    • Diana


      Thank you for writing. I’m sure you can understand that I can’t possibly help you fully in a comment forum. You will need a session with me.
      However, let’s keep in mind that a 13 year old boy undergoes tremendous physical and hormonal changes at this age. It is a time of great turmoil for most young males and this might change happening in his body and psyche is a powerful factor in his behavior right now. You do not mention his father or his relationship with a male parent. This, too, is an important component of what he needs at this time. We don’t know about his choice of friends, or what you have him do during his non-school hours. Does he have regular disciplines/chores to perform? –Or does he hole up in his room with a cell phone and video games?
      So, before we can start attributing his problem behavior to spiritual forces and your sister with her animosity toward you, these physical and practical matters need to be understood and properly addressed.

      If there is not a male role model in his life, he most certainly needs one: enlist the aid of a trustworthy man to mentor him. If he is NOT constructively engaged in meaningful outside activities, come up with a plan and in so doing remember this: you are the authority in his life. Be firm and consistent with directing him into character-building activities.

      Please understand that I believe your focus on your sister’s influence is keeping you from attending to the things you can do as the mother of a 13 year old to get him in alignment. Do you speak negatively of her around him, or have you done so in the past? –It’s time to verbally express forgiveness of her and let it go. (That does not mean you have to have her in your life, however.) Teach him forgiveness and open all kinds of dialog with him. Let him talk about whatever…and if he doesn’t…spend the time necessary to create discussion.

      One thought form is not responsible for this. Your sister is not responsible for this. Move beyond this yourself, and you will help him move beyond negativity into more positive states of awareness.

      Practice (the two of you) “benefits counting exercises.” This means you list and give thanks for all the benefits in your life. Is he grateful? If not, why not?

      Spark his curiosity of nature, science, art, and mechanics. Ask questions yourself about “things” and the two of you search for answers together. Make learning a fascinating, daily endeavor, not just for school.

      Of course your son is beautiful and radiant! 🙂 It would be good to not panic or go into overwhelm too easily. (However, it’s undeniably a challenge for a mother when a son enters this phase of his life.) I suggest that you consider some counseling for you so that you can build confidence with dealing with the situation. You are very right to see a need for action and not to let this slide without intervention.

      Finally, his connection to the sun and sunlight is a deep metaphysical connection he has on a Soul level. It’s time to introduce him to a lot of outdoor activity, and along with that, a Sunlight meditation for the two of you to do together. I will post this meditation in the future.

      Thank you for writing. Take courage, and get connected to your own Higher Guidance in his behalf.

  13. Amy


    I love the article and I think it’s important that all kinds of music be avoided at times. Not just “rap” music. There are demonic rock and roll songs. Most songs today are backmasked so none of them are truly better than the other these days. Other than that a great article. Peace and blessings.

  14. Belinda


    I am sending you love and endless blessings, you are wonderful, thank you for your guidance.

    • Diana


      Is this a request for help or a comment?
      First…how do you know there is a generational curse? Who told you that? Did you read about it and, because of your family history, did you diagnose this yourself? Did a psychic tell you this? (I’d like a penny for every time a charlatan psychic tells somebody they are cursed.)
      There is a great deal of misinformation about curses circulating out there; and it is often a most unproductive and often damaging train of thought.

      IF this is indeed the problem, then there are ways to heal it. You may contact me for a session as I cannot make further assessment or lend assistance by way of proper referrals without talking to you.

      Psychics really cannot remove curses. Excellent, very experienced traditional shamanic healers can, if the parties involved understand what measures are necessary on their part.

      In the meantime, practice the aura protection guidelines I give you on this website. Read:http://myspiritcare.com/category/articles
      Scroll down the pages and find all those many articles about how to protect you and the children in your life from negative energy, which is all that a curse is…negative energy…and you can greatly help your situation right away.

  15. maya


    this is the best article for mothers like me co-parenting with a narcisstic parents. My kids are abused and threatened during visitations with their father. Your article is theraupeutic and offers tips to help my kids. Thank you for sharing such beautiful insights. God bless.

    • Diana


      Thank you, Maya, for sharing your thoughts!! Anything I can do to help, anytime, I’m here to lend support. Bless you, as well.

  16. Pamela W. Acosta


    We often look at ourselves as the teachers to children but it is also they who teach us. It is our duty to not only guide them but to act as the guardians and gate keepers preserving their authenticity and innocent imagination. Adults provide the space for children to flourish into their true self, who they were called to be, which can only be found in the heart and soul of the beholder (Child). No child’s truth can be found within the limited mental constructs of people, society and the world.

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